Monday, September 29, 2008

Going to the edge... beyond the map

I'm only at the beginning of the warrior's path... The game may be over, but the warrior's path is real and alive, beyond the paper map or blog... ;)

In the last several days a lot of personal conversations-that-matter happened, including the one with the self. During the journey to another city, some steps have become more clear. More plans appeared: to organize Pioneers of Change meetings in Chernihiv, Lviv, and potentially Odessa. And Kyiv, of course. Let's see... some technical stuff should go first to make it visible, but it's minor, indeed.

What else... I've decided to change some patterns on daily life, practicing the pioneering habit of going to the edge... So, these are my small commitments:
  • Start my day peacefully
  • Bring celebration along the way
  • Do NOT do what does not matter, resist or cut it/be strange in others' eyes
  • Appreciate life, going away from focusing on what's wrong, what's not working, what's the problem. Start with my family first
  • Don't hide, don't fear
  • Be grounded, and at the same time remain high with dreams and goals
  • Be mindful and don't allow to react, but rather help options to appear
  • Learn to converge, and bring things together
  • Expect surprises
  • Get myself ready, tend the garden
  • Allow some things to let go/die to be born again

Thursday, September 25, 2008

5 min before the trip...

I'm about to leave for the trip to Lviv, another beautiful old city of Ukraine... to practice art of hosting in the Lviv Business School community... Yes, one more day-off at work, following the heart and acting in the way I want to... Some people who know me for a long time would be surprised ;) good.

It's interesting, in the last couple of days I was approached by 2 people asking the same deep question: what's the calling in life? So, this is going to be the question for the first Pioneers of Change network meeting in Kyiv in October, when back from trips... Probably, at my flat that I moved into a month ago... This is all very inspiring...

More actions... and more reflections... and more questions... for which I'm grateful - to all who are part of my journey... And to the Warriors Without Weapons to help me face it ;)

Friday, September 19, 2008

I looouuuuve action...

John Lennon was right: Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans...

In the last posts I wrote some things that I planned to act upon... And the key words here are "act upon", once you do this simple behavior, things come to you to be accomplished ;)

Today I told 25 colleagues from the Kraft Foods Ukraina corporate (including the HR Director and my manager) my story about the trip to Axladitsa-Avatakia, Pioneers of Change Multigenerational Global Journey... I talked about Open Space, World Cafe, Circle, my experience, pioneers around the world. And I already got some feedback from people who would like to join next year...

So, holding the bigger vision, I keep on dancing/acting... And I believe in the open space principles - whatever comes is the only right thing to come... whoever is there, is the right people to be there... I'm enjoying it... And I hope to share with more steps.

And yes, I committed to be a steward of the PoC here in Kyiv, Ukraine...

So far, so goood ;)

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Time to act now!


Beauty is not what it is, but what it does... so... how could I personally make a space for people’s hearts to sing?

Who could help me?
Cool team
Self-selected initiators
Support from the PoC mates
Support from Axladitsa hosts, and many other elders

What resources do I need?
Love
Courage
Persistency
Time and energy
Belief in what I’m doing, confidence
Skills (hosting, new media tools, etc.)
Investments

How do I gather people? Who are they?
By way of inviting… around core values… And I believe in self-selecting, and will trust that “those people who will come, will be the right people”.

What is your plan?
Start with the self, learn and practice the art of hosting, go for stewardship within Pioneers of Change, develop the Hub idea heavily adapted to Ukraine and Kyiv, build my own family, and by growing touch all the 5 lines of my life… in a beautiful way.

More concrete plan will follow...

Being quite realistic or ‘down to love’

Exploring the idea to make a real difference in this world, I’ve come up with the following question:

How could I personally make a space for people’s hearts to sing?

This was inspired by the poem brought by Rowan Simonsen from Denmark during the check-in of the Pioneers of Change Multigenerational Gathering in Axladitsa-Avatakia Learning Center in Greece (8-12 September, 2008).

Don’t ask what the world needs
Ask what makes your heart sing.
Because what the world needs
is hearts that sing.


Philip Thatcher

Coming back to question “how” I would try to play it from music:

1. Myself: however egoistic it may sound, it’s responsible to start with the self, learn to host myself, observe, listen, feel, sense, reflect, and act on the true calling, going through the U process cyclically. Most importantly, make love the center of everything and manifest it through all the words and actions that come from within. What else is important for me – to grow and get myself prepared for different periods in my life. Once I’m ready, it will come… and it will be the best I could have, no doubt.

2. My natives, my family: learn by practicing art of hosting to the family (current and future) around questions that matter, and don’t miss opportunities.
3. My circle of friends and mates: become a steward of the Pioneers of Change in Kyiv, keep on inviting mates to discuss questions that matter and can make a difference, having true fun and moving forward.

4. My current work: bring my learnings and experiences to my current projects, talking about ‘hearts singing’ in big corporations. Specifically, organize a story-telling event on September 19 during the lunch time – for those of my colleagues who would like to come, and they will be the right people. Also, bring my story of the PoC gathering to Chernihiv lyceum for the talented pupils, co-host the World Café in Lviv (on HR issues), Odessa (on Education-Boom issues), and in Kyiv (on PR issues), etc.

5. My future life/calling: organize something similar to the hub in Kyiv to create alternatives spaces, and before that – plan some event (potentially, Art of Hosting training) in Kyiv or the Learning Journey or something together with Axladitsa hosts, Maria and Sarah, and Ole, the visual facilitator from Denmark.

It’s interesting, that these lines are all interconnected in some sort of music I don’t yet know and hear. But once I play it, I hope that the hearts around me, and my heart as well, will be singing ;) Let’s see…

But you know what: I just feel that even if I manifest LOVE throughout my whole life, and do nothing more, that would alone make a difference… Of course, I dream big, just want to make sure that I’m always realistic and ‘down to love’ ;) All other things will happen, Gob bless.